We humans pride ourselves on being civilised. Unlike animals, we donât let biology call the shots. A chimp reaches puberty and reproduces; a human reaches puberty and is told, not yet â society has rules. Biologically mature isnât socially mature, and we pat ourselves on the back for having spotted the difference.
But watch how quickly that distinction vanishes when it threatens the in-group narrative. Bring up gender, and suddenly thereâs no such thing as a social construct. Forget the puberty-vs-adulthood distinction we were just defending â now biology is destiny, immutable and absolute. Cross-gender clothing? âAgainst nature.â Transition? âYou canât be born into the wrong body.â Our selective vision flips depending on whose ox is being gored.
The same trick appears in how we talk about maturity. You canât vote until 18. Youâre not old enough to drink until 21. Youâre not old enough to stop working until 67. These numbers arenât natural; theyâre paperwork. Theyâre flags planted in the soil of human life, and without the right flag, you donât count.
The very people who insist on distinguishing biological maturity from social maturity when it comes to puberty suddenly forget the distinction when it comes to gender. They know perfectly well that âmaturityâ is a construct â after all, theyâve built entire legal systems around arbitrary thresholds â but they enforce the amnesia whenever it suits them. Nietzsche would say it plainly: the powerful donât need to follow the rules, they only need to make sure you do.
So the next time someone appeals to ânature,â ask: which one? The nature that declares you old enough to marry at puberty? The nature that withholds voting, drinking, or retirement rights until a bureaucratâs calendar says so? Or the nature that quietly mutates whenever the in-group needs to draw a new line around civilisation?
The truth is, ânatureâ and âmaturityâ are less about describing the world than about policing it. Theyâre flags, shibboleths, passwords. We keep calling them natural, but the only thing natural about them is how often theyâre used to enforce someone elseâs story.
